recipient of the Asia HRD award 2013 (contribution to HR community category) http://www.asiahrdawards.com/halloffame.aspx
Saturday, June 28, 2008
Breakfast Buddies....
Asean Automotive Awards...
Thursday, June 26, 2008
Fuh Legaaa...
Sunday, June 22, 2008
why bad boys get the girls....jeng3x
Saturday, June 21, 2008
more shots of 2nd ICC Sabah & 5th ASEAN leadership Forum..
babuji gurmit singh in his most passionate moment with climate change doomsday warnings..hehe
ISEAS/ASLI 5th ASEAN Leadership Forum in session at the Shangri-La Singapore
It's easy to take care of me, just vegetable omelette and sauteed mushrooms, freshly brewed coffee with honey and fresh orange juice served with fresh fruits and a table spread/layout nothing less than the summit breakfast hall of the newly refurbished the Valley Wing of the Shangri-La Hotel Singapore...in the company of well mostly, caucasians....would suffice! hahahaha (please take note...hehe)Wednesday, June 18, 2008
Oh no...International Conferences & Forums again?..hehe
Sunday, June 15, 2008
Another Leadership Guru was in town...
Impressive crowd of about 600 half of whom came via IBBM...
Last Friday June 12th, I was invited (hmm just the night before the event...probably to help fill up some empty chairs(heheh)...but I would rather much like to think that my good fren Dr Kamal, CEO of IBBM ...invited me because he thought I would greatly benefit from this one-day mega event!) and not tit-for-tat cos there was a recent event I invited him at the eleventh hour too!! hahaha. Thank you Doc for the invite, I did. Leadership seems to be the buzz, today's currency and it is fashionable to talk about leadership too. I commented about 'leadership has no gender' in my earlier blogpost. I gave public lectures on leadership at West Mindanao State University, Zamboanga, Philippines and to MBA students at Universitas Airlangga and at the Training & Development Board of East Java in 2005 and 2006 respectively.
Leadership, older than the Neolithic Era and newer than the New Millennium, continues to fascinate and perplex. Are leaders born or made to order? Should they be incubated or tested by fire? What's a leadership developer to do? And to add insult to injury, we burden our leaders with crippling expectations. We demand them to be wise, swift, fearless ( just like Jet Li hahaha), and visionary. And, by the way, they should turn a handy profit and help us grow too! Who'd want such a role, and moreover, who'd ever fit the bill? Think of the size of the rock that must be lifted by anyone seeking to develop leaders? No wonder, no less than 600 people, local corporate chieftains, head honcos, directors or heads of knowledge & learning centres (hmm.. in those days we call them training managers and training departments!) were with me, trying to pick up a trick or two from John Maxwell!
No business topic has been explored (exploited?) more obsessively than leadership. No behaviour in the workplace has been more analysed, parsed, or dissected. No role has had more expectations heaped upon it. And no failure earns more oprobrium than a leadership flameout. Sometimes, it seems as if leadership is an organization's drug of choice. Companies pay huge sums to get it; employees crave it. And when it's withdrawn, they crash. If leadership had a gene, we would have decoded it by now. I salute the tenacity of scientists who continue seeking to unravel the human leadership genome.
John Maxwell 's views on leadership gravitates around four (4) themes which to him are: relationships; equipting, training & developing other people; attitudes about differences and adversities; and leaders learn to lead other people. He believes that the best leaders are good listeners. He contends that most leaders are 'travel agent' leaders and propogates that one should be a 'tour guide' leader! I like his repeated reminders not to jeorpardise our leadership by sending our ducks to eagle school! hahaha...how true (?). If what I had said triggered your interest, go get yourself his books! My final observation...I wonder if the same audience would respond, laugh at some of the silly jokes, if the speaker had not been a matsaleh and was from one of you?...heheh....think about it folks...and do enjoy the rest of the weekend.... I will be away awhile for the 2nd International CEOs Conference in Sabah and then the 5th Asean Leadership Forum in light of the Asean Charter in Singapore (on the invitation of the Institute of South East Asian Studies, ISEAS) immediately thereafter...and as always...I will blog my observations.
Tuesday, June 10, 2008
ACCA-UiTM Signing Ceremony (MOA) Crowne Plaza Mutiara Hotel, Kuala Lumpur
Prof Dr Mohamad Kamal Harun, Deputy Vice Chancellor (Industry & Community Network) UiTM, giving a speech on behalf of the VC YBhg Dato' Seri Dr Prof Ibrahim Abu Shah
'So long as men worship the Caesars and Napoleons, Caesars and Napoleons will duly arise and make them miserable.'
- Aldous Huxley (1894-1963); English novelist
Sunday, June 08, 2008
sometimes we do miss our friends...
Friday, June 06, 2008
Tuesday, June 03, 2008
leadership has no gender?...
I was actually waiting to give my piece after Datuk' Bridget's 'illuminating' talk. Somewhere in her speech she actually admitted at some point of her corporate career she cried. You know what I was going to stand up and say? (but alas...no comments or questions were forthwith...everyone zoom straight to the buffet! hahaha). Yes, Yes...If I was allowed to speak then, I would have these to say to YBhg Datuk Bridget Lai: '....Its ok to cry Datuk...for there is a sacredness in tears...if you do not already know. They are not the mark of weakness, but of power...as you are now experiencing. Tears, they speak more eloquently than ten thousand tongues. They are messengers of overwhelming grief...and unspeakable love...'
It would have been an interesting debate...first I would start off by a very provocative remark...that 'women are their own worst enemy!' Hahaha...I have randomly asked many women in my 30-year worklife...and 8 out of 10 prefer men as their bosses! How many women leaders actually groom or prepare succession plans for their fellow women? (hmmm think about it again hehe). Were it not the men who gave women a chance to lead? The poor menfolk...as if not enough stress and pressure to compete with fellow men, now have to compete with women too? hahaha...lets wave a truce flag here shall we? (doesn't matter if its black or white hehe). Do we not realise that more than 60% of undergrads are women?
So, my take is that...yes, eventually..not in too distant a future...leadership will eventually be gender-less. I have been supporting and propagating the idea that women are better managers/leaders because their positive traits (from extensive studies that I read) far outmatch the men, and I have genuinely said this in some of my MBA classes just to encourage the female students not to worry too much about the glass ceiling. It works both ways, for women as well as for men too. But then again, as Datuk Bridget aptly crystallised, culture and stereotyping has not helped much in improving the situation. Remember what happened to Larry Summers, President & CEO of Harvard University...when he made a gender-bias remark? He lost his job at Harvard...hahaha. Well? Any violent objections to my views? I rest my case...for now...